Nollywood actress Ruth Kadiri has offered useful advice to single ladies who make money their top priority when they want to settle down in marriage.
In a post shared on her Instagram page, the actress said the top on the list of most single ladies is a financially buoyant man, God-fearing among others, forgetting the most important thing that makes the union work, which is peace.
Ruth Kadiri said she feels sorry for some ladies who very eager are to marry men that would take care of their needs when it’s clear that they themselves cannot meet their own needs.
According to the actress, every single lady should make peace of mind a top priority when choosing a life partner, citing an instance that a married woman with peace of mind at home is richer than a woman who married a billionaire.
The actress added that if a lady goes into marriage because the man is rich, regardless of what he spends on her, she’s most likely not happy.
She wrote: I’ve heard many say I want a rich husband, I want a God-fearing man, I want this and I want that. Yet I’ve never seen one person ask for the only thing that can make their union work. PEACE. I feel sorry for sisters who go into marriages, union, for money. Oh I feel sorry for you. Some claims I have my money I just want a man who has more money. Others downright know in their heart they do not have it enough to take care of themselves so they want someone who will meet the needs they themselves cannot meet.
Not judging you. Pls, my sister add peace of mind to that list. I repeat add peace of mind should come before money
A married woman who has peace at home is richer than a woman who married a billionaire without peace.
Also pls note that as a single girl, you’re bound to have more value for money than you would when you’re married.
So if you go into marriage because your spouse is rich, regardless of what they spend of you, you are most likely not going to be happy